It took me longer than most people to realise I could let go of choosing the ‘hard’ route to everything. It was so entrenched, so habitual. I remember longing for life to just calm down and be, well, ‘normal’!
Not that I ever really wanted an average life – far from it. I just didn’t want it to feel like such a hard slog.
It was 2008. I was exhausted. I was burdened. I was trying to keep up appearances, but in reality I was out of my depth. Rock bottom came later – it was a long drawn out spiral – and by 2012 I knew it was time to make a different choice. I chose to recover. I chose to expand. I chose to raise my expectations. And I chose to back myself again.
The thing is, I was still incredibly ambitious. There were things in the world I still wanted to achieve! What I didn’t want was to go back to that exhausting, out-of-control way of living.
From now on it would be on my terms. I’d create it the way that worked for me: out of stillness.
And that, in a nutshell, is what I can help you do on a daily basis – to embody a calmer, more peaceful, more composed state of being. Because I know that it’s from this deep sense of knowing and appreciation for who you are and what you have to bring to the world, that you’ll seek out the new experiences, relationships, opportunities that bring you the fulfilment you want.
To live a life of calm, you must first ‘become’ calm. Work with me, the Queen of Calm, and I’ll guide you through an uplifting and empowering process of intense personal reflection, whereby you get to know what you truly want and how you want to live on a whole new level.
Whether you’re an individual or a business owner, if you’re new to coaching (or new to me) I’d encourage you to check out CATALYST – my 4 week introductory 1:1 coaching program here.